i'm a bitch because i don't "confirm" these people on my facebook?

i have this argument with my lot. well, of course shamil agree with me but others don't. they say that its just plain mean if they don't approve. to me they're just someone who wanted to win "who-have-the-most-friends" title. How fucked up is that? so what if i have second thought about being friends? i mean this people are from school(or as i call it - this loony bin?) - who btw i never talked before in my whole life! why bother then? and some religiously ignoring me for the last 7 years!!! whose being mean now??! i mean come on!!

but...